She makes her own living, and doesn't care what anyone thinks. She has her own cash flow. She makes decisions and handles her business, from paying bills, shopping sprees; buying jewelry or whatever She wants or desires,including Cruises or Trips. She is content and happy with herself, and not frightened about being alone. However, if she dates, or in a relationship, She takes no nonsense from anyone. She asks nothing from or depends on a man, "She is An Independent Woman." able to take care of herself. She makes every child rearing decision alone and then wonders why people who stay together don't make love.